Can’t Afford Christmas?
If buying presents for friends and family stresses you out every year because you can’t afford Christmas, you are not alone. And if you live in a one income household like me, it can make budgeting for the holidays extremely challenging. You still have your regular December bills you have to pay but now you have to scrounge up even more money to afford Christmas presents. How are you going to do it all? Over the years, the members of our family have gone through some rough times, so we have established some traditions that have helped us have a budget friendly Christmas and even found ways to get free money for presents! Here is how we didn’t spend a penny this year on the holidays…
We have a total extended family of 8 adults and 5 children. Your family might be smaller or larger, but these tips can be utilized for a family of any size as long as you can get everyone on the same page. They might even appreciate your efforts as it will save everyone money in the long run. Here are some ideas for any family or individual who can’t afford Christmas.
How our Family CAN afford Christmas
Rather than buy presents for everyone, we do a Secret Santa for the adults only. We pick one adult family member that we have to shop for. Just one. There are several free online websites that you can use that will do the picking randomly for you and email your list to everyone in the pool.
Here are a few examples:
Draw Names works like this: Send out invitations by entering their names and email addresses. Everyone responds to their email invitation and clicks the link in their email invitation to join the group. They may also complete their wish list at that time. Then it’s time to draw names! The names will be drawn out of a virtual hat. Each member will receive another email directing them to their drawn name. You can also send questions and receive the answers anonymously to help you choose the perfect gift. It will also save your group from previous years so you can use it over and over again.
To use Sneaky Santa first just set up some rules for the name drawing, send anonymous messages to the person whose name you draw, or you can just use it as a place to share gift ideas. You can even dig out photos from Christmas past to share with the group if you want. All you need to do is: Create or join a group. Enter gift ideas you are hoping for on your wishlist. Draw names, check out what everybody wants, and you’re good to go.
Assign a Budget
Then we assign a budget of $40-50 for our Secret Santa gift. We believe that this budget is friendly enough so that you can still get something nice without breaking the bank! On top of our secret Santa, we also do a white elephant gift exchange for the adults with a budget of $10-$15. These gifts are completely anonymous. You can learn more by reading my White Elephant Gift Exchange Guide. In the end every adult gets a total of 2 gifts and no one feels like they are getting the shaft.
As for the children, everyone in the family buys them each a gift as a couple. We set a budget of $40 per kid. So for our family we spend around $200 on the kids and $65 on the adults for a total Christmas budget of $265. And guess what? This year we didn’t even have to spend a penny of our own money! And this is how we did it…
Don’t Spend a Penny on Christmas Gifts!
We got all of our Christmas money from buying groceries throughout the year. Yes, you heard right. We bought groceries and got cash back for doing so! Everybody has to buy groceries so why not get paid for them? There are a number of free grocery apps available for download for the Android or the IPhone. These are the ones we used and how much we cashed out for Christmas:
- Walmart Savings Catcher. If you do a bunch of your grocery shopping at Walmart you HAVE to get this app! You just scan your receipt and it price matches all of your local competing stores and refunds you the difference in the form of a Walmart gift card. They do all of the work for you. We have saved a ton of money this year with this app and have already cashed out twice. But from now on, I’m just going to save all of it for next year’s Christmas budget.
Cashed out: $137.20
- Receipt Hog This is another app that requires you to take a photo of your receipt from your phone. It also has a bonus game where you can play slots for even more points. They pay you in the form of Paypal or an Amazon gift card. It takes a while to build up a decent amount of money, but it’s free so why not?
Cashed out: $20
- Checkout 51 is a site that will send you an actual check when your account balance reaches $20. You just pick and choose items from their featured list and then take a pic of your receipt. There are several items that they feature on this app that we don’t really use so it took us a while to build up enough funds. But by the time Christmas rolled around we had enough to cash out.
Cashed out: $27
- Saving Star is a money-saving and cash payout app. You register your store card or you can save your receipt. You scan your items, then scan your receipt and get cash back. They also have “freebies” and healthy offers every week
Cashed out: $25.74
- Ibotta is a very popular shopping site as well. They have a variety of items that they will give you cash back on. You can also get cash back on staples like milk or produce. You can even join my team to get more money and bonuses. The more people who use the app on your team, the more money you can earn. What is even cooler, if there is an item on Ibotta that you have a manufacturer’s coupon for, you can still get money back on that item. It’s like saving twice! And if you sign up now through my link, you will get an instant $5 to get you started.
Cashed out: $50
- Inbox Dollars This site has lots of ways to earn a little green. You can do surveys, games, and read paid emails for more ways to make money. But these days I use it only for the coupons. They are the same coupons featured on all of the major coupon sites, but they actually pay you 10 cents each when you use them! Once you earn $30 in your account you are eligible to receive a payout. If you sign up with my link you can get a $5 sign up bonus to get you started!
Cashed out: $62.63
Total of $322.57 in FREE CASH!!!
So as you can see we earned a very nice amount of free cash just by snapping pictures of our receipts! Talk about no effort! We didn’t have to spend a penny on Christmas gifts. We even have enough money left over for wrapping paper and dinner.
I am getting ready for next year so I just signed up for a site where you can get cash back from making online purchases from popular sellers like Amazon, Walmart, Best Buy and more! It’s called TopCashBack and it allows you to earn up to 70 percent cash back through using their online shopping portal. One of the best features of TopCashBack is they pay out 8.5 percent of your overall Amazon purchase. If you do a majority of your shopping online this can be a great way to make a little extra money, not only for Christmas, but all year round!
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Now I know that this budget doesn’t cover that $400 PS3 your kids are screaming for or that Versace purse you have been eyeing. But when you are working on a limited budget like us, we just put big money purchases off for a few months.
For example, if there is a very expensive purchase that my family wants or needs, we make a list and use our Income Tax refund to pay for it. I use a free income tax calc to kind of give me an estimate on what I can expect. I also save up unused vacation time at work and my company buys it back at the end of the year at time and a half. I know not all companies offer this type of program, but if they do, it’s a great way to earn a really nice paycheck in January. So if you can’t afford Christmas, it’s never too late to start a new budget friendly family tradition!
Do you think any of these tips would work for your family? What do you budget for the holidays every year? Leave me a comment and let me know!
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